New Release Grief & Trauma Programme!

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 The Release Grief & Trauma programme is now available on our revised app.   You can download it here

People have been asking for a guided healing meditation which addresses the deep pain and despair which often accompany painful and traumatic events in our lives.  Times when we feel that we just can’t go on and will never find peace again. So here it is!

I am delighted to announce the release of the latest Beyond Affirmations: What Your Body Wants To Hear guided healing mediation, Release Grief and Trauma.  This is the first new recording I’ve done for a while  and I’ve loved getting back in to the creative process.

Grief and trauma can run very deep and cut us to our core.  This meditation takes gentle, baby steps towards releasing painful emotions, moving towards acceptance, healing and peace.

With Love,

Barbara

I truly appreciate when people let me know how they get on with my programmes. I was delighted to receive this:-

“Very very good Barbara. Just had my first session and definitely could feel a bit of releasing going on. I must have drifted off because I found the tape had fimished without my recall.
Curiously, I found myself releasing pain for other people I know for whom the words seemed relevant too. It was good to feel that broader touch embracing everyone in my consciousness.

Your voice is pitched perfectly and pace gentle like the rhythm of waves or sunlight on water.

Thank you.

M x”

 

 

 

WILL POWER OR INTENTION?

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Whether we are talking about healing, forgiveness or deliberate creation of any kind. There is a tendency for our minds to kick in and try to use the power of the will to create what we want.

This I believe is where the “War on” attitude our society is so fond of came from. Since Richard Nixon popularised the term back in 1971 we have wars on drugs, cancer, child abuse, poverty, crime. You name it, we have a war on it. We haven’t won any of them and we’re never going to.

As long as we perpetuate the idea that we are at war, we add to the energy of war. Conflict and striving against is not the energy that brings peace, prosperity or healing.

With my passion for healing, I cringe every time I hear about the war on cancer for example. Without going in to detail, since Ronald Regan declared the “War on Cancer” in 1975 America has spent over two trillion dollars trying to end the war i.e. develop a cure. The methods have changed very little and still include chemotherapy, developed from Nitrogen Mustard Gas a chemical warfare agent used in the First and Second World Wars. It’s obvious by now that war analogies and will power don’t work.

So what is the difference between will and intention?

The language of “must”, “should”, “strive”, “fight” etc. comes from the ego. Your mind will speak to you that way, your soul won’t. Your soul communicates with you through loving, gentle, inspirational impulses.

As Robert Schwartz explains, “If I have a bow and arrow and my objective is to shoot the arrow to the centre of a target, can I will the arrow to the centre of the target? No, I can’t. Can I intend the arrow to hit the centre of the target? Yes of course I can. Can you feel the difference between these two things?” Will power is a constricted energetic state. Intention contains a lot more gentleness and kindness and it is expansive.

You create healing and anything else you want through gentle, kind intention. Not through beating yourself up and saying “I have to…!”

I was absolutely delighted when someone wrote this about my work. “But I’ve found out your work is not about trying to “overcome” something or even to heal something “wrong.” Your work is intended to promote well-being.”

This lady really understood, it’s not about fighting, it’s about setting a loving, gentle intention and allowing.

Love,

Barbara

 

 

 

 

Healing Guided Meditations Available on the App.

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What Your Body Wants To Hear: Relaxation & Well-being  – Free Download.

The Relaxation & Well-being programme is designed to help you release negative, repressed or stuck emotions and replace them healing, life-affirming messages – the messages your body wants to hear! It will leave you feeling peaceful, relaxed and empowered. The Relaxations & Well-being programme is free to download.

For further information and to download the app please visit Indie Goes Software With A Soul

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 What Your Body Wants to Hear: Heal Your Relationship with Food

The Heal Your Relationship with Food recording is slightly different. It is based on John Cali’s Spirit Speaks messages. I took Spirit’s messages and combined them with the “What Your Body Wants to Hear” process. So, in this recording, you are hearing Spirit’s words in a relaxing meditation.

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What Your Body Wants to Hear: Release Stress & Anxiety

“The truth is that there is no actual stress or anxiety in the world; it’s your thoughts that create these false beliefs. You can’t package stress, touch it, or see it”. – Wayne Dyer.

Whilst I agree with Dr Dyer, feelings of stress and anxiety certainly feel real and they create physical symptoms.

The body is unable to tell the difference between real and imaginary events. When we focus on our fears, it plays as much havoc with our hormones and chemical imbalance as when we confront a dangerous situation in real life. Images may just be in your mind but they trigger an instant response in your body. Release and replace fear-full thoughts and anxiety with peaceful, empowering and loving messages. The healing messages your body wants to hear.

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What Your Body Wants to Hear: Self Love

2 Session Pack

Heal your relationship with your deeper self, your creativity, wisdom and divinity. Release all your “not good enough” feelings and embrace who you truly are, a wise, creative, abundant and loving spiritual being.

If you feel you need a deep clearing exercise, please start with the first recording and listen to both. If you are feeling pretty good but need a little positivity top up go straight to the second recording and enjoy the empowering questions and positive affirmations.

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What Your Body Wants To Hear: Headaches & Migraines

There are numerous reasons for headaches & migraines. But in general they are your body’s way of telling you you are going too fast, doing too much and overloading your circuits!

Take some time to let go, release pressure and tension with this relaxing meditation.

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What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Heart

The Support Your Heart recording is one of my favourites. It is strongly focused on love. The heart is after all, the centre of our love and security. This recording leaves you feeling loved and loving, and helps you access the love your heart has for you.

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What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Stomach

The stomach is generally where we store store fear and anxiety. That “stomach churning” sensation is often an indication of anxiety. We can also store acidic or corrosive emotions, such as anger or insecurity in our stomachs. This can result in acidic health conditions, when we just can’t stomach the situation any longer. Make peace with your stomach and you will be more able to enjoy more nourishment both from food and love.

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What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Back

Because our backs carry so much emotional issues for us, it is divided in to three parts.

The Upper Back

The upper back represents the reverse side of the heart; this is where we find fear, irritation, anger, resentment and frustration.

The Middle Back

The middle back holds the balance in the centre of the body; therefore it is connected to decision-making. Resentment can also be found in the middle back. The saying “I bent over backwards to help” relates to the middle back.

The Lower Back

The lower back is often where we store feelings of being unsupported, of the weight of responsibility. Issues of security, isolation, survival and self-support are often stored in the lower back.

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What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Hips

The hips are often where we store fear of moving forward, of the direction our lives are taking or a general fear about our very survival. This in turn can cause us to hold on so tightly that we are immobilised. This recording will help you loosen up and move forward.

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What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Knees

The knees are like shock absorbers, taking the strain between the weight of the body above and the ups and downs of the terrain below. When we can’t bear the load any more, the knees may start to react!

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What Your Body Wants to Hear, Support Your Ankles

These thin little parts of the body support our entire weight. Support is the key word here, as the ankles reflect the support we depend on. And like the knees, we need them to be flexible and strong.

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What Your Body and Your Baby Want to Hear, Support Your Changing, Pregnant Body

Research suggests that up to 80% of pregnant women report moderate to severe dissatisfaction with their bodies. A quick google search of “I hate my pregnant body” confirms this. This recording is designed to help you make peace with, accept and love your amazing pregnant body. So that you can enjoy this special time, instead of agonising over it.

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What Your Body and Your Baby Want to Hear, Support Your Pregnancy

The new science of Epigenetics, is showing how much the emotional environment of our time in the womb affects us. At birth, half of our personality has already been formed. This recording is designed to help you release worry and anxiety. To help you and your baby relax and enjoy this very special time in your lives.

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What Your Body Wants To Hear: Support Your Neck

The neck acts as a mediator between the head and body. It is a bridge between the absolute and the relative.  It is therefore a natural cut off point, a place where a mind/body split is often found.  Let go of all your “pain in the neck” thoughts and beliefs with this healing meditation.

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What Your Body Wants To Hear: Heal Your Relationship With Money

Spirit had a great deal of input  in this recording. I could feel their energy but I wasn’t consciously aware of it until the script was complete.  If you are familiar with the film “Tuning In – Channelers in America”, Bashar, Tobias or Chief Joseph, you will recognise many of their wise words in this recording.  That, blended with the beautiful music from Thaddeus, an angelic being of light, channelled by Sanaya Roman, makes for a powerful meditative, healing experience.

 

 

 

Apple App Store

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I am absolutely delighted to announce that the app is now available for IPhone and IPad. It’s hard to imagine that almost the whole What Your Body Wants To Hear series is now available in such a handy and compact format. Download it here:-http://www.indie-goes.com/beyond-affirmations-body-wants-hear-mobile-app-iphone-ipad-android/

Or listen to a session for free here: https://www.facebook.com/indie.goes.apps/app_153420784843320

The app contains the following guided meditations:-

What Your Body Wants to Hear: Stress

The truth is, there is no such thing as stress or anxiety in the world. It is your thoughts that create these false beliefs.

Release and replace these fear-filled thoughts and anxiety with peaceful, empowering and loving messages – the messages your body wants to hear!

What Your Body Wants to Hear: Heal Your Relationship with Food

The Heal Your Relationship with Food recording is slightly different. It is based on John Cali’s Spirit Speaks messages. I took Spirit’s messages and combined them with the “What Your Body Wants to Hear” process. So, in this recording, you are hearing Spirit’s words in a relaxing meditation.

What Your Body Wants to Hear: Self Love

2 Session Pack

Heal your relationship with your deeper self, your creativity, wisdom and divinity. Release all your “not good enough” feelings and embrace who you truly are, a wise, creative, abundant and loving spiritual being.

If you feel you need a deep clearing exercise, please start with the first recording and listen to both. If you are feeling pretty good but need a little positivity top up go straight to the second recording and enjoy the empowering questions and positive affirmations.

What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Heart

The Support Your Heart recording is one of my favourites. It is strongly focused on love. The heart is after all, the centre of our love and security. This recording leaves you feeling loved and loving, and helps you access the love your heart has for you.

What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Stomach

The stomach is generally where we store store fear and anxiety. That “stomach churning” sensation is often an indication of anxiety. We can also store acidic or corrosive emotions, such as anger or insecurity in our stomachs. This can result in acidic health conditions, when we just can’t stomach the situation any longer. Make peace with your stomach and you will be more able to enjoy more nourishment both from food and love.

What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Back

Because our backs carry so much emotional “stuff” for us, itis divided in to three parts.

The Upper Back

The upper back represents the reverse side of the heart; this is where we find fear, irritation, anger, resentment and frustration.

The Middle Back

The middle back holds the balance in the centre of the body; therefore it is connected to decision-making. Resentment can also be found in the middle back. The saying “I bent over backwards to help” relates to the middle back.

The Lower Back

The lower back is often where we store feelings of being unsupported, of the weight of responsibility. Issues of security, isolation, survival and self-support are often stored in the lower back.

There is a natural overlap among the lower, middle and upper back. For this reason, we offer a three session pack, Full Back

What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Hips

The hips are often where we store fear of moving forward, of the direction our lives are taking or a general fear about our very survival. This in turn can cause us to hold on so tightly that we are immobilised. This recording will help you loosen up and move forward.

What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Knees

The knees are like shock absorbers, taking the strain between the weight of the body above and the ups and downs of the terrain below. When we can’t bear the load any more, the knees may start to react! 

What Your Body Wants to Hear, Support Your Ankles

These thin little parts of the body support our entire weight. Support is the key word here, as the ankles reflect the support we depend on. And like the knees, we need them to be flexible and strong.

What Your Body and Your Baby Want to Hear, Support Your Changing, Pregnant Body

Research suggests that up to 80% of pregnant women report moderate to severe dissatisfaction with their bodies. A quick Google search of “I hate my pregnant body” confirms this. This recording is designed to help you make peace with, accept and love your amazing pregnant body. So that you can enjoy this special time, instead of agonising over it.

What Your Body and Your Baby Want to Hear, Support Your Pregnancy

The new science of Epigenetics, is showing how much the emotional environment of our time in the womb affects us. At birth, half of our personality has already been formed. This recording is designed to help you release worry and anxiety. To help you and your baby relax and enjoy this very special time in your lives.

What Your Body Wants To Hear: Support Your Neck

The neck acts as a mediator between the head and body. It is a bridge between the absolute and the relative.  It is therefore a natural cut off point, a place where a mind/body split is often found.  Let go of all your “pain in the neck” thoughts and beliefs with this healing meditation.

What Your Body Wants To Hear: Headaches & Migraines

There are numerous reasons for headaches & migraines. But in general they are your body’s way of telling you you are going too fast, doing too much and overloading your circuits! Take some time to let go, release pressure and tension with this relaxing meditation.

What Your Body Wants To Hear: Heal Your Relationship With Money

Spirit had a great deal of input  in this recording. I could feel their energy but I wasn’t consciously aware of it until the script was complete.  If you are familiar with the film “Tuning In – Channelers in America”, Bashar, Tobias or Chief Joseph, you will recognise many of their wise words in this recording.  That, blended with the beautiful music from Thaddeus, an angelic being of light, channelled by Sanaya Roman, makes for a powerful meditative, healing experience.

Recordings run approx. 30 minutes. Music: Temple of Healing Love by Thaddeus.

 

With deepest love and gratitude,

Barbara x

 

 

FINGERS & TOES

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They say we teach that which we most need to learn and I believe that’s true. So many healers and teachers set out to heal themselves then find themselves teaching others. That’s just how it seems to work.

I have always been my own guinea pig, my own experiment. Before I recommend any therapy or teacher you can rest assured I’ve tried it myself.

The other day I had an interesting lesson. Something I’d overlooked and not used my own process or teachings on – my fingers!

When I get cold, my fingers turn numb and white. It can be quite painful when they warm up and the feeling comes back. It also freaks people out when they see it. I first remember it happening when I was 16 and although people have given me all kinds of dire warnings, I am still around to tell the tale.

At one point when I moved from a centrally heated house to one where the only heating was an open fire and I had to get coal and wood in no matter what the weather, my fingers were really bad and I took Ginko biloba and Ginger to great effect.

Over the years I kind of forgot about it but the weather was bitingly cold. My gloves were wet from throwing the ball for Finn and my fingers were frozen.

It suddenly dawned on me – talk to them! Not rocket science considering my work and very surprising that I hadn’t thought of it before, because I truly do live what I teach – usually :).

I apologised to my fingers for forgetting about them and leaving them out in the cold, literally!

I reminded myself that my fingers are part of me and thanked them. I reminded myself that my body knows how to send blood to my fingers. I asked my body to send more blood to warm my fingers up. I envisaged warm, healthy, loving blood being pumped to my fingers. I welcomed my fingers back in to the fold, apologised and thanked them. I can’t say how long it took, but it wasn’t long before they started to warm up. When I took the wet gloves off my fingers were perfectly pink.

Almost immediately my toes felt cold. I have never had a problem with them before, but they seemed to want to get in on the act and have loving thoughts and warm blood directed to them. I simply repeated the process and warmed them up too.

Is there a part of you that you are leaving out in the cold?

Might it benefit from some love, kind thoughts and words?

Love,

Barbara

 

 

 

 

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