E.F.T. Tapping When Your Baby Is In An Incubator

E.F.T. Tapping When Your Baby Is In An Incubator

E.F.T. Tapping When Your Baby Is In An Incubator

EFT Tapping When Your Baby is in an Incubator

As a parent there can be few things that make you feel more helpless and useless than when your premature or sick baby is whisked off in an incubator! You have to stand back whilst your baby is put on a ventilator, wired up to noisy monitors,  poked, prodded and subjected to painful and invasive procedures.  Your entire being; your biology, your heart and soul are screaming out to love, nurture and protect this precious little scrap, yet you can do nothing!  As a new mother, every nerve, sinew and hormone is programmed to hold, love and nurture the new arrival,.  You know all the interventions, as painful as many of them are, could be life saving. So you have to stand back, let strangers take over and somehow keep a lid on your viscerally raw emotions and instincts, your baby’s life depends on those strangers and there is absolutely nothing you can do. 

Or is there? 

Back in 1992 when I faced this situation, there was nothing I could do. I didn’t know Emotional Freedom Technique or Reiki. I had no way of soothing myself far less helping my daughter.  A bit later we were allowed to put our hands in the incubator, find a tiny piece of flesh which didn’t have a monitor or cannula  on it and touch her but that didn’t compensate for not being able to pick her up, hold her or feed her. 

Back then, like millions of other parents, I used will-power and determination to get through the long days and nights and continue to function. Many medical staff complimented me on how well I coped. Of course I wasn’t really coping, I was simply repressing painful emotions which is never healthy and brings it’s own problems further down the line!

Emotional Freedom Technique is definitely number one on my list of things I wish I’d known back then!

How You Can Help Yourself and Your Baby With Surrogate E.F.T. Tapping

It’s wonderful to see Emotional Freedom Technique becoming more widely known and accepted. It is very quick and easy to learn and amazingly effective even in the hands of complete beginners. Not all teachers know, or will tell you, that E.F.T. can also be done surrogately. You can tap on behalf of someone else even when you are not with them.

As we are using loving intention and energy, time and distance don’t matter. You can tap for your baby no matter where you are!

I won’t speculate on how or why this works, there are many different theories and for the purposes of this article, all I care about is that it helps someone out there.

Firstly Soothe Your Self!

We often project our fears onto others. In such a traumatic situation as the birth of a premature or sick baby you have to soothe yourself first. We are no use to anyone else when we are in deep trauma and shock ourselves.  Your baby feels your emotions and energy so by soothing yourself you also help her.

Three Ways to Tap On Behalf of Your Baby

Tune in to your baby and tap for whatever you feel or can see is upsetting or traumatising them. The obvious ones are of course, pain, fear, isolation and any painful medical interventions.

1. Tap On Your Own Body As Yourself

Simply tap as you normally would, but rather than state you have the problem, use the baby’s name for your set up statement.  “Even though (baby’s name or my baby) has this problem (state problem) I deeply and completely love and accept (baby’s name).  Do the same with your reminder phrase.

2. Tap On Your Own Body As Your Baby

Similar to the method above but sometimes this helps you  tune into how your baby is feeling more accurately.  Bearing in mind how connected you are with your newborn it’s not surprising that you often feel exactly what they are feeling.  Set your intention that you are your baby, then tap around as though you are the baby. “Even though I have this problem” etc. Remember to disconnect and come back to yourself when you are done.

3. Using A Proxy Item To Represent Your Baby

This can be a really useful way to help you focus. Any teddy bear, doll or other toy will do. Simply intend the toy to represent your baby and tap around the points as normal.

EFT Surrogate Tapping Teddy Bear

 

The Question of Permission

As a parent you only have the highest and best intentions for your child, your heart and intent are pure and loving. In the higher realms we are all connected, we are all love, we are all one. If you feel the need to ask the baby’s higher self or soul for permission do so but I truly don’t think anything done from such love, care and compassion can ever cause harm.

Boost Your Immune System With E.F.T.

Boost Your Immune System With E.F.T.

Boost Your Immune System With E.F.T.

What Your Body Wants To Hear Boost Your Immune System with EFT

Our immune systems are designed to recognise and eliminate viruses, bacteria and other foreign invaders. For the most part they do an amazing job!  However, our immune systems can become less effective when we are under pressure, feel like giving up, are pushing too hard, feel insecure, threatened or manipulated. If you are feeling under the weather, check to see if you are feeling any of those emotions. That will give you ideas for what to tap on. But you can start boosting your immune system right now by tapping on the following the suggestions.

If you are not familiar with E.F.T. Just follow the tapping points illustrated here.

EFT Tapping Points

 

(For more instructions about tapping  points, pop over to my article about using E.F.T. to ease cold and flu symptoms.)

If you have symptoms of illness, pain or discomfort, use those in your set up statement as you tap on your Side of Hand Point. For example, “Even though I have this cold, I deeply and completely love, accept and forgive myself”. Repeat this three times then tap the Eyebrow Point gently, around ten times, saying “I have this cold”. Move to the Side Of Eye point and repeat, “I have this cold”. Repeat this at all the tapping points finishing off with the Top of Your Head point.

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If you don’t have any symptoms but want to give your immune system a boost try tapping a few rounds saying these, or similar statements:- “I know my immune system is doing the most amazing job and I deeply and completely love, accept and thank my immune system”.  “My immune system is fabulous, it knows exactly what it is doing and it keeps me healthy and well. I deeply and completely love and thank my immune system”. “My immune system is powerful, wise and strong. I am grateful to my fantastic immune system and I deeply and completely love, accept and thank my wonderful immune system for keeping me safe and healthy”. “My immune system is doing the most fantastic job protecting me from all those viruses and bacteria and I deeply and completely love, accept and thank my amazing immune system, thank you, immune system, for everything you do for me”.

 

 

The Power of Words & The Importance of Being Specific

The Power of Words & The Importance of Being Specific

The Power of Words & The Importance of Being Specific

Almost anyone can get pretty impressive results using Emotional Freedom Technique. But an E.F.T. professional who knows the importance of being specific and thorough can achieve incredible, sometimes life-changing results.

The same is true of meditation. Almost everyone benefits from practicing it, whether silent meditation or guided meditation.A very sad and frustrating situation for our First Minister and the entire SNP . They have shown immense strength ,compassion and dignity on the subject of war on Syria. It is sad and ironic that fighter jets are being deployed from Lossiemouth in Scotland. A Scotland where the largest majority of people want no part in the suffering of fellow human beings.

With my E.F.T. background I am very aware of the powerful healing which can result when we are very specific and thorough. That is why I designed the What Your Body Wants To Hear meditation series to be very detailed, precise and specific in addressing the individual emotions likely to be held in particular areas of the body.

Most energy therapists also know that the different sides of our bodies represent different aspects of our lives and therefore we hold different emotions in them. Where we have two of something, i.e.  hips , knees and ankles, What Your Body Wants To Hear meditations contain healing statements which cover both sides. We would never want to leave you lopsided! 🙂

All our  healing affirmations are freely available for you to use as you choose. They are great for tapping along with or simply to gain more insight into what emotion may be causing your problem.  For the links to all our free affimations click  here.

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To the healing and well-being of all,

Love,

Barbara

The Easy Way To Start Healing From Within

The Easy Way To Start Healing From Within

The Easy Way To Start Healing From Within

So you’ve watched The Secret, listened to Kryon, Abraham Hicks and other spiritual teachers. You’ve read Louise L. Hay’s Your Can Heal Your Life and watched the way Dr Emoto’s water crystals react to the power of words! You Believe!

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You believe you can heal yourself by the power of your words and intention, but feel ridiculous talking to yourself or don’t know what to say. You believe your emotions are causing your discomfort, pain or life challenges but have no idea which emotions they are or how to heal them.

You may have heard of Energy Medicine, Emotional Freedom Technique, Tapas Accupressure Technique, Divine Love Healing and many others, but don’t have time to study any of them in enough depth to take yourself through an effective self-healing session.

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I understand! At one time I was in your shoes!  I believed, but I didn’t know where to start. Life had to take me to such a low point that I could hardly walk to make me pay attention and deal with the underlying emotional causes.

You don’t have to fall so low or suffer so much.  I have done the words for you. All you have to do is read or listen to them. This will help you break the habit of self-sabotaging, fearful self-talk and teach you to speak kindly to your body.  You will be astonished by how quickly your body responds to your new peaceful, loving, kind, healing words.

You can find links to free transcripts of all my healing meditations here

Both our mobile app.s contain a free healing meditation.  Download our  What Your Body Wants To Hear app.to get  Relaxation and Well-being free.  Or choose our brand new Release, Heal & Transform app. and enjoy Release, Heal & Transform Fear  free. If you’d prefer an MP3 of Release, Heal & Transform Fear, click here to download

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To your empowerment and healing,

Love,

Barbara

 

 

 

Affirmations To Ease The Emotional Aspects of Rheumatoid Arthritis

Affirmations To Ease The Emotional Aspects of Rheumatoid Arthritis

Affirmations To Ease The Emotional Aspects of Rheumatoid Arthritis

What Your Body Wants To Hear Ease the Emotional Aspects of Rheumatoid Arthritis

Rheumatoid Arthritis is an auto-immune dis♥ease where our immune system attacks the membranes of our joints. Movement becomes limited and joints become rigid and painful. Rheumatoid Arthritis is a condition of conflict.

Some of the emotions implicated in Rheumatoid Arthritis are:- Inner rigidity, overly self disciplined, self critical, giving to others but not to self, repressed anger, judgemental, low self esteem, negative or critical, stuck, lack of assertiveness, resentful, bitter, attacking self, lost self, don’t recognise self, something in self you don’t want to see or recognise. Feeling inhibited, unable to act the way you really want to. Destroying yourself with guilt or shame.

Undermining self, criticism, lack of self respect, want to hit out. inhibiting the desire to hit out, Stuck, lifeless, lost sense of purpose, self dislike eating away at us, no point in doing anything. No longer able to do what we did before. No longer active, Can’t/don’t know how/haven’t found a way to be softer, gentler and more appreciative of self. Attacking self, confusion, Don’t recognise self.

Life doesn’t really matter/no longer matters. Guilt, shame, blame, lack of self esteem/respect. Dislike or hatred of self. Refusing to accept help from self or others. Negating our own inner beauty. Undermining love of life. Overly critical, putting self down, disappointed in self or someone else wearing away at you eroding your sense of self worth. Refusal to change, fear of the future, not feeling safe, feeling totally alone, desolation, despair, hopelessness. Trying to prove yourself, Low self worth, Lost the will to live, Crying on the inside, Given up, deep seated grief, Hopeless “it’s no use”.

This meditation is not yet available in audio format but many of the emotional aspects are covered in my other meditations.

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Affirmations To Ease The Emotional Aspects of Rheumatoid Arthritis

With every breath I take, I am sending, love, gratitude and healing to my mind and body! Yes, yes, yes…

Releasing the Negative Emotions

I release any beliefs or energies which lend weight or give power to the label of this dis♥ease! Yes! Yes! Yes!

I release any way I am holding on to this label! Yes, yes, yes…

I release any ways I benefit from holding on to this label! Yes, yes, yes.

I release any and all ways I am holding on to this dis♥ease!

I release any and all ways my body is holding on to this dis♥ease!

I release any ways any part of me benefits from holding on to this dis♥ease!

I release any and all fear I am holding in my mind and body!

I release resistance!

I release anger!

I release irritation!

I release all feelings of desolation or helplessness!

I release the trauma of any shocks I have suffered!

I release all the ways I am trying to protect myself!

I release rigidity from my mind and body!

I release any and all self criticism!

I release any and all fear of what my future holds?

I clear any emotions which have me hot and fired up inside!

I clear all the ways I feel sore and inflamed!

I clear all the ways I am inflexible!

I clear all the ways I am trying to defend myself!

I release resentment!

I release bitterness!

I release all the ways I feel restricted and inhibited!

I release guilt!

I release shame!

I release blame!

I clear all the ways I feel stuck and lifeless!

I clear all the ways I dislike myself!

I release disappointment!

I clear all the ways I undermine myself!

I clear all the ways I put myself down!

I clear all the ways I feel alone and isolated!

I clear all the ways I judge myself!

I clear all the ways parts of me don’t recognise myself!

I clear all the ways I no longer recognise myself!

I clear all the ways parts of me want to hit out but turn inward instead!

I clear all the ways my body is holding on to all this emotion!

I clear all the ways I have lost my sense of purpose!

I clear all the ways these emotions are eating away at me!

I clear all the ways I feel I don’t deserve!

I clear all the ways I attack myself!

I clear all the ways I restrict myself!

I clear all the ways I am so tired of trying to prove myself!

I clear all the ways I don’t believe in myself!

I recognise, accept and clear all the ways I am crying on the inside!

I clear any and all self hatred!

I clear and release any and all ways I focus on dis-ease rather than wellness!

I clear and release anyway any parts of me benefit from holding on to this dis-ease!

I clear and completely release any and all ways in which I attack myself. I now recognise myself and realise that all parts of me are doing the very best they can!

Afformations To Prepare Your Subconscious Mind To Accept & Receive Positive Affirmations

Why am I open to the idea that I might be able to release my attachment to this dis-ease?

Why am I open to the idea that I might be able to make peace with my body?

Why can I accept that it might be safe to let go just a little bit?

Why is it possible that I could learn to love myself?

Why am I open to peace?

Why do I feel safe?

Why am I reassured?

Why am I open to the possibility of healing?

Why am I open to the possibility that my future might be bright?

Why is it possible I might be able to loosen up?

Why is it possible I might be able to loosen my joints?

Why am I open to flexibility?

Why can I accept?

Why am I open to hope, trust and faith?

Why might I be able to feel safe and secure?

Why do I open my mind and heart to the possibility of healing?

Why can I allow myself to begin to soften?

Why am I loved and supported?

Why can I choose peace?

Why do I accept myself?

Why am I able to feel peace and forgiveness?

Why do I allow feelings of love to flow through my mind and body?

Why can I give myself a break, release the pressure and relax?

Why do I feel so peaceful now?

Why can I allow life and love to flow through my body now?

Why am I at peace with myself now?

Why do I feel content?

Why do I support myself?

Why do I love and accept myself?

Why do I feel calm and peaceful now?

Why do I feel safe now?

Why do I know I am loved and supported?

Why do I accept myself exactly as I am?

Powerful, Positive, Healing Affirmations

I am peaceful!

I am safe!

I look after myself!

I release all those restrictive emotions!

I choose to be at peace with myself!

I choose to be at peace with others!

I choose ease!

I allow love to flow through my mind and body bringing comfort and peace!

I send peace and love to my joints!

I forgive myself!

I accept myself!

I set myself free from rigidity in mind and body!

I no longer judge myself or others. I am free!

It is safe to let go of everything that no longer serves me!

I give my body love and space to heal!

I choose to be flexible in mind and body!

I choose love and forgiveness!

I choose to focus on well-ness!

I choose flexible freedom!

I focus on this now moment and know all is well!

I am grateful to my body for everything it does to support me!

Fear contracts, love expands. I allow myself to relax, to feel love and to expand!

I release all fear and focus on love!

Love, forgiveness and peace flow through me.

I am worthy!

I am reassured and safe!

My self esteem and confidence are growing!

I move forward and leave the past behind with peace and love!

I am peace!

I am Love!

All Is Well

 

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