Is Fear Making You Fat?

Is Fear Making You Fat?

Is Fear Making You Fat?

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Are you struggling with a weight issue or working with a client who just can’t seem to shift “stubborn” weight?

With weight issues it is always worth exploring the possibility that aspects of fear or insecurity may be lurking beneath the surface. During prolonged periods of stress and insecurity our bodies can lay down extra fat to protect us against perceived threat.

Once again my theory that our bodies are always, always doing the very best they can to support us comes into play. Your fat cells are not there to upset you, they are there to protect you. This is also why our bodies create extra fat during pregnancy, it is there to protect the baby and our vital organs.

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release, heal & transform Fear free affirmation meditation

Hating the fat cells, waging war on your body or slavishly following a restrictive diet are not going to address the core issue of the weight gain or help shift the weight. If you’ve tried  ‘everything’ and nothing has worked, take a look beneath the surface, clear out the fear, let go of the stress and thank those fat cells. Thank them and tell them it is safe for them to be reabsorbed into the whole of you now. Make a start to let go of fear now with our FREE Release, Heal & Transform Fear MP3 Or get over 100 free affirmations to help you heal your relationship with food.

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Heal Your Emotional Relationship with Food

Heal Your Emotional Relationship with Food

Heal Your Emotional Relationship With Food

Our relationship with food is intimately connected with how emotionally safe, loved and nourished we feel. An increase in appetite may result from emotional pain, the need to fill that painful, empty place with something. The something you are really looking for is love but in a perceived absence of love you make do with food. A lack of appetite can indicate  a desire to retreat from life, nurturing the hurt inside us again indicating a need for love. Not feeling safe can lead you to put on weight and keep it on!

What Your Body Wants To Hear Heal Your Relationship with Food

Our relationship with food can be complex. Powerful emotions of enjoyment and guilt get in to the mix. “Expert” advice about what is and is not healthy seems to change daily resulting in confusion and mixed emotions.

Change your thinking, change the way you feel about food, bring peace into the relationship you have with food. Not only will you feel better but your body will respond.

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Affirmations to Heal Your Relationship with Food

With every breath I take, I am sending, love and gratitude to every single cell in my body. Yes, yes, yes, yes.

Every part of me is getting the optimum benefit from this exercise!

With every breath I take, I am sending, love, gratitude and healing to my relationship with food!

Releasing Your Negative Emotions About Food

I release any guilt I have about my relationship with food!

I release any blame I feel about my relationship with food!

I release any anger I feel in my relationship with food!

I release any fear I have in my relationship with food!

I release any conflict I have in my relationship with food!

I release any cravings I have in my relationship with food!

I release any grief I have in my relationship with food!

I release any shame I feel in my relationship with food!

I release any feelings of powerlessness I feel in my relationship with food!

I release any anxiety I have in my relationship with food!

I release any longings I have in my relationship with food!

I release the belief that some foods are sinful!

I release the belief that there are right foods and wrong foods!

I release ALL the fear based beliefs I hold about food!

I release the belief that I am a victim of my metabolism!

 I release the belief that I am a victim of my genes!

I release the belief that I am at the mercy of my fat cells!

I release the belief that I wouldn’t feel safe being slim!

I release the belief that I am weak willed!

I release any feelings of rejection I have in my relationship with food!

I release any fear about harmful ingredients that may be in my food!

I clear any and all ways that I hate my body!

I clear all the conflicting emotions I have about food!

I release and completely let go of all the fear based messages about food and health that I am inundated with every day!

I release the habit of using food as a substitute for affection!

I release the way I try to stuff my feelings and fill that painful place with food!

I clear all the ways I mistake food for love!

I release the belief that my excess weight keeps me safe!

I release the love/hate aspects of my relationship with food!

I release the guilt I feel when I eat something experts tell me is bad for me!

I release all self loathing I feel!

I clear all the ways I worry about my health and weight!

I release all the ways I dislike my body!

I clear all the ways I don’t believe I chose my body!

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I clear all the ways I do not believe my body is perfect exactly as it is!

I clear all the ways I believe, I can’t help it!

I release and completely let go, of the belief, that I am a victim of my body!

I release and completely let go, of the belief, that I don’t have the power to create the perfect body!

I release the belief that I am a victim of the fast food outlets!

I release the belief that I don’t have time to eat healthily!

I release the belief that I don’t have time to sit down and savour a delicious meal and focus on the benefits and nourishment the food is giving me!

I release and completely let go of the belief that I have a bad relationship with food. I now realise that I am not a victim, I was doing the best I could whilst holding on to those erroneous, old beliefs!

Afformations To Prepare Your Subconscious Mind to

Receive & Accept Positive Affirmations

 

Why do I feel so peaceful now?

Why do I feel so forgiving now?

Why do I feel so reassured?

Why do I feel so appreciative now?

Why do I feel so comforted?

Why do I feel safe now?

Why do I feel supported and secure?

 Why am I accepting?

Why am I worthy?

Why is it easy for me to focus on love and gratitude for my food?

Why is it so easy for me to digest nourishment with ease?

Why is it easy to savour food now?

Why do I feel re-charged and re-energised by the gift of food?

Why do I feel my body getting the maximum possible nutritional and heath benefits from my food?

Why do I no longer carry those old, corrosive beliefs and attitudes about food?

Why am I completely free to change my outlook and my body?

I am not at the mercy of my genes or metabolism!

Why am I so peaceful, joyful and centred?

Powerful, Positive, Healthy Affirmations

I am content, peaceful and full-filled!

I give my body only the food I believe is best for it!

I now know, no food is sinful!

I see my food as the gift it truly is!

I open myself to be at peace with my body!

I savour every delicious mouthful!

I chose my body. My body is my spirit physically expressing itself in this now moment!

I create and re-create my body with my thoughts and emotions. So I choose positive, conscious creation!

I no longer try to swallow down indigestible emotions!

It was easy and safe to stop holding on and to let go of everything that no longer serves me!

I lovingly allow, love, joy and good health to flow through my mind and body!

My body is restored to its natural state, perfect health!

Food is fun!

My relationship with food is positive and healthy!

I enjoy and celebrate my food!

I chose and enjoy those foods that resonate with me!

My body benefits from the food that resonates with me!

I love and appreciate my body!

Meal times are sacred time when I honour and nourish my body!

I am loved and loving!

Affection and love flow easily in to my life!

I love and appreciate my body!

I love and appreciate my food!

I am patient and loving with my body as it learns new habits!

I give thanks with reverence and honour for my food!

I take my time and savour my food!

My body gets the maximum possible benefits from the food I eat!

I am grateful!

I appreciate!

The energy of my relationship with food is healthy, loving and flowing.

I am healthy, loving and grateful!

It is safe to embrace change!

I relax and let go of the pressure!

I am peaceful, joyful and centred!

I allow the energy of my soul to flow through my body!

All good things, all my wildest dreams, flow to me, easily and effortlessly!

I have a good body! Actually, I have a great body and a great relationship with food. Thank you, body and food, for everything you do for me!

I am Peace.

I am Love.

All is Well.

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What Your Body Wants To Hear Heal Your Relationship With Food. Running time 29:15

What Your Body Wants To Hear Self-Love Part 1. Running time 25:13

What Your Body Wants To Hear Self-Love Part 2. Running time 24.45

What Your Body Wants To Hear Release Grief & Trauma. Running time 31:07

Release, Heal & Transform Anger. Running time 15:18

Release, Heal & Transform Fear. Running time 13:46

Release, Heal & Transform Shame. Running time 14:15

Release, Heal & Transform Guilt. Running time 15:53

 

 

Learn more about the fascinating reasons your body may be holding on to excess weight. What Was Going On In Your Life The Last Time You Were At Your Ideal Weight?

 

 

WAR ON OBESITY, DIABETES & CANCER!

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I recently did something I very rarely do, watched TV news. It was Channel 4 News which is covers slightly different topics in more depth than BBC or the dreaded Sky but even so it feels as though they are reporting on another world than the one I live in. A whole other planet!

They were discussing the levels of obesity in the U.K. and the dis-eases which stem from it. Yes, you’ve guessed it, they were discussing the “War on obesity”. I don’t remember the names of the panel members but there was a woman who’d had Bariatric surgery, a Bariatric Consultant and a woman who wanted to blame the food industry for the scourge of obesity.

The main discussion focused on whether the N.H.S. (the publicly funded health system in the U.K.) could afford to do more Bariatric surgery. It would cost more in the short term but make savings in the long term as there would be fewer cases diabetes and cancer.

Give him his due, the consultant seemed like a genuinely caring person. He refused to be drawn in to the blame game the anti-food industry woman kept trying to draw him on and simply said “I see people suffering and need to help them”. Very admirable and honourable, especially as the anti-food industry woman kept asking him if that was not letting the food industry off the hook. A wise man, he wasn’t interested in attributing blame but still believed we have to wage war for things to change.

It never ceases to astonish me that mainstream, conventional thinkers never stop to think that the answer might just lie inside. Blaming anything outside ourselves is an exercise in futility! They continue to focus on what they do not want and continue to get more of it, an eternal cycle.

As I was waking with Finn in the woods today I thought back to my days of studying dog behaviour and training. I remember learning, dogs do what works! Whether its the behaviour we want or not, if it works for the dog, he’ll repeat it. How different is that from human beings? We do something which does not work and repeat it over and over again somehow expecting the outcome to change!

Mother Theresa famously refused to attend an anti-war rally but said she’d happily attend a pro-peace one. What a wise woman!

No part of our body is our enemy! Waging war on our bodies is never going to create health and well-being, it can’t. War only ever begets more war.

Like everything our bodies do, fat cells are there for a reason. They are usually created as protection from a perceived threat. Healing your fears, telling your fat cells that you are safe and thanking them for everything they have done for you is a far more healthy and loving way to lose weight than waging war on them. Why would you wage war on part of yourself that was trying to help you?

You can use the physical force of surgery or strict diet and rigorous exercise to change the appearance of your body. But unless you do the inner work, the inner conflict and perceived need for protection will eventually re-emerge.

With Love,

Barbara

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 What Your Body Wants to Hear: Heal Your Relationship with Food

The Heal Your Relationship with Food recording is slightly different. It is based on John Cali’s Spirit Speaks messages. I took Spirit’s messages and combined them with the “What Your Body Wants to Hear” process. So, in this recording, you are hearing Spirit’s words in a relaxing meditation.

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What Your Body Wants to Hear: Release Stress & Anxiety

“The truth is that there is no actual stress or anxiety in the world; it’s your thoughts that create these false beliefs. You can’t package stress, touch it, or see it”. – Wayne Dyer.

Whilst I agree with Dr Dyer, feelings of stress and anxiety certainly feel real and they create physical symptoms.

The body is unable to tell the difference between real and imaginary events. When we focus on our fears, it plays as much havoc with our hormones and chemical imbalance as when we confront a dangerous situation in real life. Images may just be in your mind but they trigger an instant response in your body. Release and replace fear-full thoughts and anxiety with peaceful, empowering and loving messages. The healing messages your body wants to hear.

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What Your Body Wants to Hear: Self Love

2 Session Pack

Heal your relationship with your deeper self, your creativity, wisdom and divinity. Release all your “not good enough” feelings and embrace who you truly are, a wise, creative, abundant and loving spiritual being.

If you feel you need a deep clearing exercise, please start with the first recording and listen to both. If you are feeling pretty good but need a little positivity top up go straight to the second recording and enjoy the empowering questions and positive affirmations.

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What Your Body Wants To Hear: Headaches & Migraines

There are numerous reasons for headaches & migraines. But in general they are your body’s way of telling you you are going too fast, doing too much and overloading your circuits!

Take some time to let go, release pressure and tension with this relaxing meditation.

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What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Heart

The Support Your Heart recording is one of my favourites. It is strongly focused on love. The heart is after all, the centre of our love and security. This recording leaves you feeling loved and loving, and helps you access the love your heart has for you.

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What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Stomach

The stomach is generally where we store store fear and anxiety. That “stomach churning” sensation is often an indication of anxiety. We can also store acidic or corrosive emotions, such as anger or insecurity in our stomachs. This can result in acidic health conditions, when we just can’t stomach the situation any longer. Make peace with your stomach and you will be more able to enjoy more nourishment both from food and love.

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What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Back

Because our backs carry so much emotional issues for us, it is divided in to three parts.

The Upper Back

The upper back represents the reverse side of the heart; this is where we find fear, irritation, anger, resentment and frustration.

The Middle Back

The middle back holds the balance in the centre of the body; therefore it is connected to decision-making. Resentment can also be found in the middle back. The saying “I bent over backwards to help” relates to the middle back.

The Lower Back

The lower back is often where we store feelings of being unsupported, of the weight of responsibility. Issues of security, isolation, survival and self-support are often stored in the lower back.

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What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Hips

The hips are often where we store fear of moving forward, of the direction our lives are taking or a general fear about our very survival. This in turn can cause us to hold on so tightly that we are immobilised. This recording will help you loosen up and move forward.

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What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Knees

The knees are like shock absorbers, taking the strain between the weight of the body above and the ups and downs of the terrain below. When we can’t bear the load any more, the knees may start to react!

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What Your Body Wants to Hear, Support Your Ankles

These thin little parts of the body support our entire weight. Support is the key word here, as the ankles reflect the support we depend on. And like the knees, we need them to be flexible and strong.

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What Your Body and Your Baby Want to Hear, Support Your Changing, Pregnant Body

Research suggests that up to 80% of pregnant women report moderate to severe dissatisfaction with their bodies. A quick google search of “I hate my pregnant body” confirms this. This recording is designed to help you make peace with, accept and love your amazing pregnant body. So that you can enjoy this special time, instead of agonising over it.

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What Your Body and Your Baby Want to Hear, Support Your Pregnancy

The new science of Epigenetics, is showing how much the emotional environment of our time in the womb affects us. At birth, half of our personality has already been formed. This recording is designed to help you release worry and anxiety. To help you and your baby relax and enjoy this very special time in your lives.

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What Your Body Wants To Hear: Support Your Neck

The neck acts as a mediator between the head and body. It is a bridge between the absolute and the relative.  It is therefore a natural cut off point, a place where a mind/body split is often found.  Let go of all your “pain in the neck” thoughts and beliefs with this healing meditation.

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What Your Body Wants To Hear: Heal Your Relationship With Money

Spirit had a great deal of input  in this recording. I could feel their energy but I wasn’t consciously aware of it until the script was complete.  If you are familiar with the film “Tuning In – Channelers in America”, Bashar, Tobias or Chief Joseph, you will recognise many of their wise words in this recording.  That, blended with the beautiful music from Thaddeus, an angelic being of light, channelled by Sanaya Roman, makes for a powerful meditative, healing experience.

 

 

 

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The app contains the following guided meditations:-

What Your Body Wants to Hear: Stress

The truth is, there is no such thing as stress or anxiety in the world. It is your thoughts that create these false beliefs.

Release and replace these fear-filled thoughts and anxiety with peaceful, empowering and loving messages – the messages your body wants to hear!

What Your Body Wants to Hear: Heal Your Relationship with Food

The Heal Your Relationship with Food recording is slightly different. It is based on John Cali’s Spirit Speaks messages. I took Spirit’s messages and combined them with the “What Your Body Wants to Hear” process. So, in this recording, you are hearing Spirit’s words in a relaxing meditation.

What Your Body Wants to Hear: Self Love

2 Session Pack

Heal your relationship with your deeper self, your creativity, wisdom and divinity. Release all your “not good enough” feelings and embrace who you truly are, a wise, creative, abundant and loving spiritual being.

If you feel you need a deep clearing exercise, please start with the first recording and listen to both. If you are feeling pretty good but need a little positivity top up go straight to the second recording and enjoy the empowering questions and positive affirmations.

What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Heart

The Support Your Heart recording is one of my favourites. It is strongly focused on love. The heart is after all, the centre of our love and security. This recording leaves you feeling loved and loving, and helps you access the love your heart has for you.

What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Stomach

The stomach is generally where we store store fear and anxiety. That “stomach churning” sensation is often an indication of anxiety. We can also store acidic or corrosive emotions, such as anger or insecurity in our stomachs. This can result in acidic health conditions, when we just can’t stomach the situation any longer. Make peace with your stomach and you will be more able to enjoy more nourishment both from food and love.

What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Back

Because our backs carry so much emotional “stuff” for us, itis divided in to three parts.

The Upper Back

The upper back represents the reverse side of the heart; this is where we find fear, irritation, anger, resentment and frustration.

The Middle Back

The middle back holds the balance in the centre of the body; therefore it is connected to decision-making. Resentment can also be found in the middle back. The saying “I bent over backwards to help” relates to the middle back.

The Lower Back

The lower back is often where we store feelings of being unsupported, of the weight of responsibility. Issues of security, isolation, survival and self-support are often stored in the lower back.

There is a natural overlap among the lower, middle and upper back. For this reason, we offer a three session pack, Full Back

What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Hips

The hips are often where we store fear of moving forward, of the direction our lives are taking or a general fear about our very survival. This in turn can cause us to hold on so tightly that we are immobilised. This recording will help you loosen up and move forward.

What Your Body Wants to Hear: Support Your Knees

The knees are like shock absorbers, taking the strain between the weight of the body above and the ups and downs of the terrain below. When we can’t bear the load any more, the knees may start to react! 

What Your Body Wants to Hear, Support Your Ankles

These thin little parts of the body support our entire weight. Support is the key word here, as the ankles reflect the support we depend on. And like the knees, we need them to be flexible and strong.

What Your Body and Your Baby Want to Hear, Support Your Changing, Pregnant Body

Research suggests that up to 80% of pregnant women report moderate to severe dissatisfaction with their bodies. A quick Google search of “I hate my pregnant body” confirms this. This recording is designed to help you make peace with, accept and love your amazing pregnant body. So that you can enjoy this special time, instead of agonising over it.

What Your Body and Your Baby Want to Hear, Support Your Pregnancy

The new science of Epigenetics, is showing how much the emotional environment of our time in the womb affects us. At birth, half of our personality has already been formed. This recording is designed to help you release worry and anxiety. To help you and your baby relax and enjoy this very special time in your lives.

What Your Body Wants To Hear: Support Your Neck

The neck acts as a mediator between the head and body. It is a bridge between the absolute and the relative.  It is therefore a natural cut off point, a place where a mind/body split is often found.  Let go of all your “pain in the neck” thoughts and beliefs with this healing meditation.

What Your Body Wants To Hear: Headaches & Migraines

There are numerous reasons for headaches & migraines. But in general they are your body’s way of telling you you are going too fast, doing too much and overloading your circuits! Take some time to let go, release pressure and tension with this relaxing meditation.

What Your Body Wants To Hear: Heal Your Relationship With Money

Spirit had a great deal of input  in this recording. I could feel their energy but I wasn’t consciously aware of it until the script was complete.  If you are familiar with the film “Tuning In – Channelers in America”, Bashar, Tobias or Chief Joseph, you will recognise many of their wise words in this recording.  That, blended with the beautiful music from Thaddeus, an angelic being of light, channelled by Sanaya Roman, makes for a powerful meditative, healing experience.

Recordings run approx. 30 minutes. Music: Temple of Healing Love by Thaddeus.

 

With deepest love and gratitude,

Barbara x

 

 

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