Make Friends With Food!

Make Friends With Food!

When You Change Your Relationship With Food, You Change The Way Your Body Reacts To It!

affirmations for weight loss

Most of what we’ve been taught about achieving and maintaining our ideal weight simply isn’t true! Calorie counting, weighing and measuring have their place, but if you don’t address the emotional drivers behind over-eating or choosing food that doesn’t nourish you, any weight loss you achieve will be hard won and almost certainly won’t last.


Everything we learned in personal or spiritual development studies can equally be applied to weight and body image issues.  We have a relationship with food, just as we have a relationship with everything and everyone else in our lives. If we create conflict and struggle in that relationship with our negative beliefs we simply create more resistance and more struggle.

This lady explains how surprised and pleased she was at breakfast the morning after using our Heal Your Relationship with Food Meditation

What We Resist Persists

When we push against something we automatically create resistance.  When we focus only on what we want, not what we don’t want, it manifests for us. When we focus on the end result, rather than perceived hurdles and difficulties, we reach the desired result a lot faster and painlessly.

I covered a lot of the reasons for stubborn weight issues in my article What Was Going On In Your Life The Last Time You Were at Your Ideal Weight? so I won’t cover that ground again.

Emotional Drivers

We know that in other areas of life, making war against something never achieves peace.  The same is true of our relationship with food and how food affects our bodies. If we are not aware of the emotional drivers behind our behaviour we are powerless to control the behaviour for very long. Willpower alone will only take us so far.

The truth is, when you clear the emotional drivers behind over-eating or eating what you (or others) consider to be the ‘wrong’ foods you take back your own power and your body, in its infinite wisdom will bring itself back into balance.

Free Healing Affirmations To Heal Your Relationship With Food

All our healing affirmations are absolutely free. Why not read or tap along with our Heal Your Relationship with Food script for a few days and watch how your body responds?

Get All Our Self-Help Guided Healing Meditations on Mobile App.s

Download them Free

What Your Body Wants To Hear

Release, Heal & Transform

Get Heal Your Relationship With Food MP3

Get The True Key to Permanent, Healthy Weight Loss MP3 Package

Neck Pain? Fibromyalgia? How Letting Go Of Deep Grief Eased Agonising Pain

Neck Pain? Fibromyalgia? How Letting Go Of Deep Grief Eased Agonising Pain

Neck Pain, Fibromyalgia or Deep Grief & Trauma?

I am often asked if I have a meditation for this condition or that condition. Although the What Your Body Wants to Hear series is pretty comprehensive, it doesn‘t cover every physical condition. It does cover most emotional issues though. Very often I can recommend one based on what emotional issues the physical condition is connected with. For example (among other issues) lung issues are often linked with grief, diabetes with self-love, inflammation with anger, kidney issues with shame, neuralgia with guilt etc. So using a meditation for the specific emotional issues can often affect the physical which is obviously what happened for this lady.

The following is a genuine letter I received from a lady who’d used my What Your Body Wants To Hear, Release Grief & Trauma Healing guided meditation.  To protect her privacy, I’ll call her Mary.  Once again, it seems to prove that when we let go of painful emotions our body can heal itself without physical manipulation or medication.  Scripts for all my meditations are freely available for you to read, tap along with or even record for yourself on this site.

With my love, Barbara

“For two days over the weekend just gone, I was in agony, I had severe pain in both sides of my neck and at the base of my skull, I thought it was due to a flare up of my fibromyalgia. So I put hot packs on my neck and took the max. dose of painkillers. I began to think I would have to see my chiropractor again!

Anyway like I told you in my last email I’d downloaded your meditations and it was that same night that I was guided to listen to your meditation on Grief & Trauma. I started to play it and as it continued I burst into tears and just kept sobbing….What a release!

I knew I was letting go of the Grief & Trauma that had been building up since my beloved husband passed over two years previous. And the things you mentioned on the meditation I really identified with and I was a little taken aback as I hadn’t realised I was holding onto such beliefs!

And recently I’d left a job where I’d been bullied and was still holding onto a lot of resentment and unforgiveness towards my ex-colleagues and over the last few years many of the jobs I have undertaken, had left me feeling disappointed, hurt and lacking in confidence. So I think some of these emotions were also released!

What Your Body Wants To Hear Neck Pain Relief Testimonial

After the tears I felt as though a weight had lifted from me and a lot of the pain in my neck and at the base of my skull had GONE! And that night I slept soundly which was wonderful as the previous two nights I’d hardly slept due to the agonising pain.

So THANKS AGAIN Barbara!! I will continue to listen to your Grief & Trauma meditation (& your other meditations)”.



Get Release Grief & Trauma full length guided meditation MP3

What Your Body Wants To Hear Release Grief & Trauma
FREE TRANSCRIPT for What Your Body Wants To Hear, Ease The Emotional Aspects of Fibromyalgia



One night recently, my stomach was upset with anxiety about Pixie, my beloved kitty, who was undergoing surgery, and I listened to Barbara’s stomach mp3. It was so perfect!

One night recently, my stomach was upset with anxiety about Pixie, my beloved kitty, who was undergoing surgery, and I listened to Barbara’s stomach mp3. It was so perfect!

Dear Barbara,
I just wanted to thank you for the Stomach tape. I am finding it so helpful. I have had tummy troubles for couple of years now, following two bereavements and then losing my job!

You may recall I was helped immensely by your guided meditation for releasing grief and trauma so I thought I would continue the healing process by freeing myself from needing the Omezrapole medication which I take for acid reflux.

It is early days yet but I listen to the meditation tape instead of taking the medication and I know my stomach is feeling the benefit of all the loving and liberating thoughts that I am sending it. It’s great to feel I can have a relationship with my own tummy and, like a mum, comfort it as I would a child.

I do continue to take medication if symptoms dictate and am grateful for that but it is wonderfully empowering to begin the self healing process.

Thank you so much.

Much love and gratitude

Infinity symbolLove it Barbara!  I also love your unique way of affirming for the parts of the body which can’t speak for themselves.

For everyone else’s info, I ordered two of Barbara’s affirmation mp3s and really loved them. If you resonate with my affirmation CDs, then you’ll love hers, as well. She separates the parts of the body which may be having troubles and speaks such lovely affirmations about those parts.

One night recently, my stomach was upset with anxiety about Pixie, my beloved kitty, who was undergoing surgery, and I listened to Barbara’s stomach mp3. It was so perfect! Check them out! Rev. Anne Presuel

Infinity symbolDear Barbara, just wanted you to know how the meditation for helping me and my stomach has begun to affect my behaviour.

I realise I have a habit of internalising negative emotions and, in the spirit of ‘clearing all ways in which I have stored indigestable emotions’ found myself doing something I have never done before…… think it’s simply called standing up for yourself!   Yesterday at work I felt I was unfairly treated and found myself nursing the emotional wound all night and even had a dream in which I did indeed stood up for myself. I released a lot of anger. This morning I have emailed my boss to communicate how I felt in a calm reasoned way so hope it does the job! Fingers crossed :-)Much love
M.Infinity symbolMy stomach was bothering me a bit yesterday so I pulled out your stomach recording and listened to it. It was great! I even drifted off in to never-never land for a couple minutes. But when I was done, my stomach felt fine. J.Cali

Soothe Your Stomach MP3

Get the app.

%d bloggers like this: